It is almost the end of 2012, and I think many of us are
already looking forward to 2013. We are
wondering what changes it will bring and what is in store for us.
I think
this is the ideal time to take a moment and re-evaluate where you are and
re-invent yourself into what you want to be. Taking a good hard look, cutting yourself a
break when you need it, and being willing to shake off the cobwebs opens up a
wonderful window of opportunity.
For me, the first step is to determine what it is about
yourself you want to change, and what you feel is fine just the way it is. Like with any big decision, creating that “pro
and con” list can help. Remember, this
is YOUR list, no one else’s. It is your
opinion that counts. This is the time for self-reflection and self-evaluation. Be honest with yourself.
Now that you have your list, take a good hard look at it and
see where change is possible. This is
where you may have to “cut yourself a break” and accept the things you truly
cannot change. Remember, these do not
all have to be big changes. Even little
steps are progress.
Once you have decided what you can and cannot change, it is
time to begin the work. For each of the
things on the “con” list, identify one or two things you can do to move them to
your “pro” list. Create a checklist and
methodically work through it to achieve your goals.
This does not have to be a daunting or overwhelming
task. Here are some steps you can try to help you on your path to “re-invention”:
·
Set
Your Goals – Make sure you prioritize your list. You may feel more success by starting with an
“easier” change first. Just make sure to
put your goals in an order that makes sense to you. Even a small step in the right direction gets
you on your way.
·
“Schedule”
Your Time – Make sure you set aside the time necessary to make the
changes you desire. Carve out that time
and designate it as you would a “must meet deadline” or an unbreakable
appointment. This is not the time to get
distracted.
·
Reward
Yourself – Make sure you give yourself the chance to celebrate your
success and give yourself that “pat on the back” you deserve. Change is hard and your work should be
recognized.
Many times circumstances and life can get in our way. We lose sight of the person we truly are and
where we want our lives to head. The
start of a new year is the perfect time to take stock.
I believe if we can make the “personal” changes, the “professional”
changes will fall into place. There is
no way to achieve what we want in our businesses or our careers if we are not
clear on exactly “who” we are and are willing to do the work to become the best
possible versions of ourselves.
I think this quote from George Bernard Shaw sums it up
completely:
“Life
isn’t about finding yourself. Life is
about creating yourself.”
So I go out there and “create” the person you were truly
meant to be. Let 2013 be the year of
personal and professional growth. You
deserve it!
