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Bullying in the workplace is a problem.
Any time workers feel uncomfortable or afraid, job satisfaction and productivity plummet. While more focus is given to the bullying of children, the fact is that many adults are subject to it too.
"27% of Americans have suffered abusive conduct at work; another 21% have witnessed it;
72% are aware that workplace bullying happens".
These additional statistics are startling:
“In a prevalence study of U.S. workers, 41.4% of respondents reported
experiencing psychological aggression at work in the past year representing 47
million U.S. workers (Schat, Frone &Kelloway, 2006). The research found that 13%, or nearly 15
million workers, reported experiencing psychological aggression on a weekly
basis.”
So, what exactly
constitutes “Office Bullying”?
At its most basic, Workplace Bullying is the on-going mistreatment of one or more co-workers by one or more office bully. The key word here is “on-going”. It is not an isolated incident, but is aimed at repeatedly causing harm to the intended victim.
According to the Workplace Bullying Institute, Office Bullying consists of any one or more of the following behaviors:
- Verbal abuse
- Offensive conduct/behaviors (verbal and non-verbal) which are threatening, humiliating, or intimidating
- Work interference or sabotage that prevents the intended victim from completing their work duties
No matter in which
form it occurs,
It takes away from the environment most business owners are trying to create – an environment where each employee is encouraged and rewarded. While it may be hard for many of us to believe “adults” bully, they do.
It takes away from the environment most business owners are trying to create – an environment where each employee is encouraged and rewarded. While it may be hard for many of us to believe “adults” bully, they do.
We have all heard much
discussion and emphasis on the need to stop bullying in
our schools. Workplace Bullying, however, has not been
given the same priority.
One of the
main reasons for this is that, in many cases, we do not acknowledge Office Bullying even occurs. Or maybe we believe adults
should be able to “take care of" the problem themselves.
The reality is, Office Bullying does occur and any time we allow ourselves to put blame or responsibility solely on the “victim”, we all lose.
The reality is, Office Bullying does occur and any time we allow ourselves to put blame or responsibility solely on the “victim”, we all lose.
I Challenge All of Us
to Believe We Can Make a Difference. More
importantly, I Challenge Us All to Take Action.
Here is what We Can
Do!
If You Are the Victim
of Office Bullying:
- Admit that you ARE being bullied
- Believe it is NOT Your Fault
- Document the Dates and Times of the Bullying
- Keep any Incriminating Texts, Emails, Memos, etc.
- REPORT the Bullying
If You Are a Witness
to Office Bullying:
- Speak Up
- Provide a United Front on the Side of the Victim
- Offer to Be a Witness for the Victim
If You Are a Manager
or Employer:
- Be Proactive and Screen Before You Hire!
- Make Your Office a Zero Tolerance, Bully Free Zone and Use Background Checks in Your Hiring Practices
- Draft and Implement a Strong Policy for Dealing with Complaints
- Hold Meetings to Familiarize Employees with Your Policy and Create Awareness
- Encourage the Reporting of any Bullying
- Establish a Safe Contact for Reporting Incidents of Bullying
- Investigate all Complaints Promptly and Thoroughly
- Enact Any Changes Necessary to STOP the Bullying
We all need to take responsibility and refuse
to tolerate bullying.
No one has the right to intimidate, belittle, or physically harm another. We can all present a united front and stop bullying in its tracks by Putting the Bullies on Notice!
Remember, just because
we are now adults, it does not mean that bullying no longer occurs.
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I'm glad to see these issues being talked about and not accepted as "normal" behavior!
ReplyDeleteI agree Penny. The more we recognize what it is and how often it really happens, the more power we have to all band together to stop it!
DeleteThanks for your comment!